If you claim to be lesbian or gay but you wouldn’t date a trans woman or man you are garbage and equate people to genitals good job super “radical” and “progressive”
replies to this post:
- TERFs who don’t understand that you can be in a relationship without having sex
- TERFs who think you can always immediately spot a trans person and therefore they could never unknowingly be attracted to a trans person!
- TERFs insulting me for some dumb ass inapplicable reason i.e. don’t know how to form an argument
- TERFs comparing trans people to rapists/abusers despite the fact that a great population of trans people are rape/abuse survivors including myself
- 99.9% of people want sex in their relationship though and sexual attraction doesn’t only matter during actual intercourse. I have to be sexually attracted to my partner to cuddle and hold hands and love her.
- Mistaking someone’s sex initially means nothing. Many people pass/are mistaken for the opposite sex, even cis people. When we realise that person we thought was a cute girl is actually a man it’s not bigoted of us to stop being attracted, even if he’s still pretty. Sexual and romantic relationships are more than quick assumptions.
- You deserve to be insulted tbh
- Having been raped does not mean you can’t say rapey things like “gay people are bad for not dating the opposite sex”
Same-sex attraction is not bigotry and never will be. Trying to police same-sex attraction is bigotry.