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butchnymph:

Any MTF who won’t date bi women who are interested in them because they feel invalidated that bi women can actually enjoy penis or male features is straight up admitting that it has nothing to do with being lonely or wanting a relationship and everything to do with a homophobic obsession with forcing lesbians to tolerate heterosexual sex for their own validation. You super dont get to explain why you can’t have sex with people who are attracted to you and consenting, and need to instead institute conversion therapy on people who dont consent because it feels more like a philosophical/theoretical victory that way. Only wanting sex from people who arent attracted to you because they’re exclusively attracted to the sex you want to match the gender roles of, and only to prove something to the world rather than as a form of intimacy and bonding, is such a disgusting sociopathic view of sex and sexuality.

Lesbians aren’t validation holes. They’re full human beings.

Relationships dont “prove” anything, because relationships are an ongoing agreement not an object on a shelf. They should be mutually beneficial and emotionally fulfilling. Girlfriends aren’t trophies.

Say it with me friends “only wanting sex from people who aren’t attracted to you is a disgusting sociopathic view of sex and sexuality”