If you tell anyone but specifically lesbians and gay men, that we’re bad people/immoral/oppressors/bigoted for not wanting a certain type of sex or for interacting with certain body parts then you’re a horrible person, you don’t actually believe in enthusiastic consent and in fact actively use rape culture and conversion therapy logic. You don’t actually care about gay people’s mental well-being and.in fact would rather be suffer. I don’t care if you don’t believe you’re doing this, your actions have consequences whether you acknowledge them or not.