Ok, I’ve gotten a lot of people who asked me this, and I’d like to say that the term “gay” can have several meanings. Gay can both be used to describe someone who is homosexual, which I am not, or it can be used as an umbrella term for the queer community, which I am.
Ahhhh so you’re a boring straightie with no personality so you call yourself gay to try to make yourself more interesting. Hm. This is why I wish asexuals were oppressed