I just read a teen vogue article that states that what you do with your hair, how you wear your clothes etc is part of gender identity and gender expression and they interviewed someone who “identifies as trans” and they listed “twirling” as a feminine act, and another person that said they were nonbinary because they had “The roughness of a male but with the kindness of a female” and didn’t even want the physical features of the opposite sex.
I thought the point was to get rid of sexist gender sterotypes, not enforcing them in a new “cool progressive way” and throwing the trans rights movement under the bus