i came across a subreddit called r/deadbedrooms when i was lurking on another subreddit and wew. i realize that sex is a very important part of relationships and repeated rejection can cause mental distress but um. the solution is to find someone who you are more sexually compatible with and is more into you. someone with a similar sex drive. i read so many stories of women w low libidos having sex with their husbands to save their relationships. sex they didnt really want to make their husbands happy. relationships are about compromise but sex is one of those things that you can’t compromise on. sex you don’t want hurts the soul. having sex to make someone else happy is bad for you. i even saw another thread about a man who recently found out his wife of 10+ years was a CSA survivor and it was making sex difficult for her especially after giving birth and he was all like. hi everyone. how can i enter a polyamorous relationship since my traumatized wife wont suck my dick. god
i did see another interesting, recurring thing. women with higher libidos than their husbands bc their husbands were addicted to porn and couldnt get it up/cum unless they were watching porn while having sex. i guess the moral of the story is that men’s pleasure is the end all, be all of relationships. im sad lol
according to reddit i have sexually abused every man i gave a disinterested blowjob too
A woman enduring unwanted sex to keep her husband happy while ignoring her own feelings: Abusive and disrespectful.
A man coercing his wife to have sexual intercourse she doesn’t want and ignoring the fact that she clearly isn’t into it: A basic human need. Completely fine.
“Dead bedrooms” could be 100% solved if men would stop being selfish entitled pigs and actually make a woman cum for once.
It basically boils down to men not giving a shit about their partners pleasure then being surprised when she loses interest in sex.
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