moominradfem:

let’s create a sex realism (as opposed to sex positivity) where we teach women and girls how to masturbate and tell them that sex with people that don’t respect u is damaging and that u can totally say no to anal and blowjobs and penetrative sex and literally anything u want to say no to Indefinitely, and that boys are bad in bed.

these are all things that would have helped me when i was going thru my rough teenage years at the hands of the sex positivity movement