if you say/imply exclusive same-sex attraction is Problematic in any way that is Homophobic rhetoric
if you say/imply that same-sex attracted people should do anything to potentially change their sexuality to include the opposite sex ( “Examine preferences” “If you won’t date a trans person that’s transphobic”) that is Conversion Therapy rhetoric
this applies whether you are a Republican senator, a normie soccer mom, or a leader in Trans and Queer activism