how is same sex attraction possible? how do you know someone’s sex when you meet them? do you perform a genital check?

lesbian-lizards:

exgaypositivity:

“How is same sex attraction possible” ffjxhsjahdjkfj?????? Thats???? Ur unironic question??? How do gay people exist??? Why dont yall ever come after hettys with this question

How is same “gender” attraction possible? Do you ask someone their pronouns before determining whether or not they are aesthetically pleasing to your eyes?

What if you don’t even have a gender? Are you just not attracted to anyone?

once again yall like to pretend that it is absolutely impossible to discern someone’s biological sex just by looking at them when it is something dogs and fuckin babies can do instinctively

riggityriggityradfem:

former porn stars and prostitutes: sex work was a horrific and traumatic experience that scarred me both emotionally and physically, and we need to do everything we can to protect women & girls from ever having to endure that

libfems: what a fucking Bigot!! sex work is empowering, i know because i read a buzzfeed article by some woman who was a camgirl for like a week and a half about how EMPOWERING and awesome it is so you are a swerf and a misogynist for saying otherwise

officialweatherwax:

notcisjustwoman:

you know what’s crazy is that if you get the average woman alone, away from men and other women who might police her, she’ll actually agree with 99% of radical feminism as long as you don’t say the words.

One of the most woke women I know doesn’t really think of herself as a feminist, let alone a radical one. But the’s constantly pointing out things like “if a woman is murdered, her husband probably did it” and confronting the parents of boys who pick on her daughters (or giving her girls permission to hit them). Women know what’s up, even if we don’t always have the language to say it or the ability to confront it.

tomdoe:

you know gender abolitionism really is very freeing. as much as I struggle to unlearn forced/capitalized femininity and gender roles, it’s becoming very comforting to me to know that no matter what, I am a woman, and literally all that means is that I was born with two x chromosomes and a uterus. My status as a woman is not a political stance, a personality trait, an identity, or an aesthetic. It is just a scientific fact like the color of my hair or my height. I can do whatever I want, be whoever I want, love whoever I want, and I am still a woman,and nothing can take that from me.