i think the funniest and realist thing i’ve realized lately is how troubling idealization can be. every person is just… a person. the very people you want to impress or be apart of are just people. even if they seem wildly intimidating because of the way they look or because of their reputation, every one is just a person. human. as embarrassing, as remorseful and they are going through stages of growth just like you are. we only see what we want to see and then drown ourselves further in our own depression and we don’t have to.
genderists are great at coming up with new language when they’re making genders and sexualities but as soon as you ask them to stop using a slur to refer to an entire community of marginalised people theres suddenly no possibility for a better word
hot take: hrt, gender therapy and trans surgeries should be free
until my actual medical treatments for my chronic illnesses are free i dont wanna hear about you wanting free plastic surgery
trans people transitioning is not the same thing as cosmetic plastic surgeries believe it or not and get the fuck off of my post
it’s the exact same as cosmetic surgery! mtf getting a implants because they are uncomfortable with their body is the same thing a “cis”woman getting implants because she’s uncomfortable with her body! it sucks to be uncomfortable in your body but until actual medical procedures are free i dont want to hear that you think you’re entitled to plastic surgery. it’s ableist and offense as fuck (sincerely a mentally and physically ill person who actually has a sense of priorities)
Exposed lesbophobia and violence against lesbians.
“I want this thing that’s not for me. I have now claimed it for myself. If the people the things is actually for use it, I will stop them with violence.”
That is basically all of this queer/gender/identity garbage in a nutshell
Big Mean Sweaty Dyke 