i just googled the porn videos of me that were illegally recorded without my consent and they’re still up, and being downloaded. the guy who uploaded them is some guy who calls himself a cam girl guru, and has recorded videos from hundreds of unsuspecting camgirls
in the videos i’m wasted, at the peak of my alcoholism and in my most destructive relationship, having sex
i was incredibly depressed and self destructive, and the fact that men are still downloading and masturbating to videos of me at that low point in my life is just sickening
i hate it so much and i wish i could delete them so bad and fuck you if you watch porn
This is why the only porn you should consume is porn sold DIRECTLY from the people involved, and only when it’s been established that everyone is ok with it. If that’s too complicated, or you don’t want to pay, then stick to drawn or written porn. Or just don’t use porn at all.
Your sexual pleasure is NOT worth more than people’s well-beings.
As for OP, I am so sorry that this happened to you. That video doesn’t change anything about you and your worth.
Imagine being such a piece of garbage that you see a woman talking about her personal story involving porn and how it’s basically eating away at her and ruining her self esteem and then proceed to respond with “well this is the type of porn you should be watching…”
It’s almost like porn users’ empathy only stretches as far as the point before they actually need to start considering whether they’re part of the problem🤔🤔🤔🤔
When a handful of Westboro Baptist Church members showed up Saturday at the funeral of Orlando shooting victim Christopher Leinonen, counterprotesters donning large, white angel wings were there to shield mourners. Members of the Orlando Shakespeare Theater put together the wings as a symbolic but also literal screen between the WBC and funeral attendees. An Orlando Police tweet later proved the efforts to stop the WBC worked.
Okay, but I’m actually crying tears of frustration, because the article doesn’t even mention the history behind this act.
There’s a reason this was undertaken by a theatre company. It means they knew The Laramie Project. It means they knew that the idea for the angel wings came from their use to block the WBC at the funeral of Matthew Shepard, a gay college student who was murdered in Wyoming in 1998.
The original “Angel Action” was a counterprotest organized by LGBTQ activist Romaine Patterson, who had been a friend of Shepard’s in high school. This is part of our history. We’ve been shielding our loved ones from hate groups while we bury our dead for decades – and that deserves acknowledgement.
Look at males, thinking exploiting our bodies is some high art. Males are the lowest common denominator.
The golden age of porn coincided with the 15 years that women made the greatest strides toward social equality. Pornography is men’s attempt to put women into what they believe is their place.
“queer as fuck”, or, in scientific terminology, “heterosexual”,
i mean i sure do love being a big ol’ queer dyke, but sure. whatever you say.
And i love being a big ol’ queer fag but go off i guess op
I’m literally a gay man but condemn and mock people for reclaiming slurs or whatever because you’re too consumed by internalized homophobia to do it yourself 🤷♂️
so because i don’t want to enthusiastically adopt a term that:
would have carried trauma and suffering for many of my lesbian ancestors
literally means ‘weird’ even though our main point of activism for years has been that homosexuality is natural and common everywhere
does not acknowledge the individual realities of our sexualities, encouraging onlookers (and ourselves!) to see us as a homogenous mass of ‘the queers’ instead of addressing head-on why we’re different and why this is positive
literally doesn’t do anything. at all. chances are you’ve never actually been called queer if you’re middle class and western enough to reclaim it, so what do you get out of using the term other than a little bit of edge factor?
that means i have internalised homophobia????
I’m not saying you have internalized homophobia because you don’t adopt it I’m saying you have internalized homophobia because you mock those who do and assume they have more privilege than you but i understand how it might’ve come off that way
I’m literally so confused by this post cause I’m queer and I identify that way because I also identify as lesbian, bisexual, or gay depending. Being queer easily encompasses all of me and describes me better than any of those other identities.
You can’t invalidate my identity cause you get offended by it. Being queer is who I am.