When people say that BDSM is rooted in the sexualization of the inequity of power, this is what they are talking about. And yes, I know that the “not all BDSM” or “this isn’t real BDSM” crusaders are coming, and I realize that most people in BDSM are not consciously thinking like this. However, this is what happens when sex is used as a tool to “put someone in their place”.
Whatever your opinion, it is no coincidence that BDSM eventually manifests itself in this way. In BDSM, sex is used as a form of power over another person instead of something reciprocal that people can enjoy together. Think about porn in general. Sex is used to break women down, to degrade them, to let them “know their place” as this says. As much as we would all love to think that these users are on the fringe of society, they are not.
Pornographers openly admit that porn is about violence against women and that it is often used as a way for men to “cope” with women in real life who reject or ignore them. I honestly don’t care if people still want to like BDSM, but we need to stop thinking that there are no consequences, or that dominance and submission are completely natural. Shit like this honestly scares me.
Anyone who WANTS someone to be raped cannot be a good person.
That should be a non-controversial statement, right?
Some people have an excuse for everything. “Can’t you understand that you’re literally KILLING [fill in the blank]!” which, even though it’s a complete lie, becomes the excuse for threats of rape and evisceration that lead to real-life violence against women. But “they brought it on themselves, HA, serves them right, those violent TERFs.”
4th rule of misogyny: Women’s opinions are violence against men, thus male violence against women is justified.
The Kaonashi No-Face Piggy Bank is a money box that automatically takes your coins and saves them for a later date. Place a coin in Kaonashi’s red bowl and then the spirit will “swallow” the money as music plays from the movie (and he even finishes it with a burp). A must-have for Ghibli fans.
*whispers* okay if we’re talking about appreciating hairy women, you couldn’t include a single bearded and/or pre op and/or pre hrt trans women. Cuz that’s like one of the big things that ppl call trans women not feminine enough for….
No because this is clearly a post for actual women and literally not everything has to revolve around men and their vile goddamn dicks.
Make your own post about hairy men, no one gives a shit.
People who promote juice cleanses and like Consuming charcoal literally sound like “doctors” in Ancient Greece who thought people could get “hysteria” when their uterus moved around the body at will towards and away good or bad smells like stop trying to get me to go on a liquid diet I know it’s you Pliny The Elder
Hysteria was in like 1800s CE
the concept of hysteria as a sickness goes back a lot longer than the 1800s, it just ran under different names, but the idea was the same and it was almost always attributed to problems with the uterus
Pliny the elder was a Roman author who died in the Pompeii eruption bc he was real curious about it. Not Greek ):
Pliny The Elder wrote an entire book full of Great facts like how I could avoid getting wrinkles by rubbing leaves soaked in actual urine on my stomach so I feel at liberty and even obligated to get one or two things wrong about him
Where did this delusion that radfems actually kill people come from? Is this the victim complex final boss? Pity points??
It’s not a delusion, it’s perfectly placed propaganda. “TERFs” are a threat to the trans movement (and to patriachy itself) so they will do anything they can to discredit us. And I mean literally ANYTHING. And people will believe it because they’re dumb sheep who care more about their own comfort then confronting and changing reality.
it’s also projection bc trans males have actually killed dozens, if not hundreds, of women, both after but especially BEFORE transition (and their supporters think we’re the ones who should die if we ‘misgender’ actual violent murderers)
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