fidnru:

honestly pornhub is bad but i think a lot of our collective anger should be directed at places like motherless and facialabuse. i think even just the first sentence that pops up when you google them tells you about their character. motherless is so relatively unmoderated and filled to the brim with what is politely called “sketchy” content that even its (gag-inducing) users think it might be a honeypot. and facialabuse is owned and operated by “duke skywalker”, who is notorious for specifically choosing young teenage girls who are new to the porn industry, tricking them into a scene (by not advertising what is it, as of note, everyone around them usually knows but pretends it’s just a normal non-violent scene), and then brutally abusing them on camera with his own quoted attempt to “scare them out of porn”. multiple women have claimed to have been raped by him and his male stars while filming a scene, which is then still sold for profit, and many more have said that he specifically refuses their pleas to stop and goes past anything they have agreed to. he also trades in specifically violent and racially charged porn, as evidenced by his other sites: ghetto gaggers, latina abuse, and black-on-black crime. 

roxilalonde:

not to be cheesy but being gay really helped me a lot with self love… like loving and being loved by gay girls taught me the power of affection and attraction that isn’t dictated by societal norms and helped me like things about myself that id hated because they didnt happen to be pleasing to straight men! so long story short! being gay is a blessing god im glad im not straight

daddy-doms-are-gross:

seeing a disturbing number of people promoting the idea that incels and red-pillers should go see sex workers or “just get an escort” and similar things…might i remind everyone that sex workers are not lesser beings we can just foist society’s problems off on, and that they are definitely not on the hook to absolve an entire culture of its legacy of violent misogyny. we should absolutely not be flippantly suggesting that these often-violent misogynists and woman-haters spend more time alone with women who don’t have the legal or institutional means to defend themselves, and who are already facing increased risks of sexual violence and physical abuse from their regular clientele. 

fempersephone:

I know many feminists who welcome men into the movement because they are of the belief that feminism can not thrive without the privileged voice of men to speak for them where they are not heard. It is one of the many reasons I left liberal feminism in favor of radical feminism. If I do not have a voice without the aid of my oppressor, then I have not found liberation, I have found another way of being dependent.