Can you imagine getting home from work and COOKING with the love of your life in your kitchen, together!! In comfy pjs and dancing to music while it rains outside! Then after you eat you go and snuggle up for a movie in your king sized bed and your dogs come and join you can you EVEN imagine??
this is legitimately the saddest thing I’ve ever read, like not in a “the straights are at it again” way but in a “wow women really aren’t allowed to be anything but straight and the sincerity of woman/woman love is constantly undermined” way. I mean yes the straights are indeed at it again, but the women going down on each other and claiming it’s platonic aren’t the straights who are at it. again
A best friend that gives you butterflies and orgasms? That’s literally just a relationship??? If they give you butterflies, you’re into them. If they’re giving you orgasms, you’re engaging in a sexual relationship. What does feelings plus sex equal? That’s right, a regular old relationship. They’re literally just lesbians. Cosmo tried to play off lesbianism as some sort of new trend.
How could a straight woman be into this? I’m straight, and I’m telling you, I could never get butterflies from another woman. I would never be interested in a sexual relationship with another woman. Why? Because I’m not romantically or sexually attracted to other women. BECAUSE I’M LITERALLY STRAIGHT
Did this magazine just pull a “nothing better than gals being pals” down play of lesbian relationships/wlw fwb relationships?
“you dont HAVE to interact with their dick!! there are other positions :)” damn how dare a lesbian actively want pussy lmao. how dare she
people think women’s sexuality is passive. they think women’s sexuality is about what a woman can “tolerate” and “manage not to be repulsed by” whereas men’s sexuality is viewed as what the man seeks out directly, what he actively desires. it’s a tremendous shame. im a lesbian. i ACTIVELY want sexual interaction with adult female persons, women. it literally doesn’t matter IF i could “tolerate sex with a male body”. my sexuality isn’t about toleration. it’s about what i want. and i want women.
This seems super trans-exclusive
Dating and sex are exclusive depending on the person’s sexuality and tastes. Inclusivity is not something that translates to every facet of life. Your objection to these posts reveals a need to control women’s bodies and you should really think about your reaction to what you read.
if you say/imply exclusive same-sex attraction is Problematic in any way that is Homophobic rhetoric
if you say/imply that same-sex attracted people should do anything to potentially change their sexuality to include the opposite sex ( “Examine preferences” “If you won’t date a trans person that’s transphobic”) that is Conversion Therapy rhetoric
this applies whether you are a Republican senator, a normie soccer mom, or a leader in Trans and Queer activism