Dear Cis Gays Inc., stop acting like schoolyard children.

radwitchescauldron:

girlsmoonsandstars:

tehbewilderness:

lesbian-lizards:

0-0110100:

penisfreezone:

horseandfeathers:

adriennenox:

If you claim that your potential partners genitalia means more than their personality, their looks, their gender, what they like/dislike, their hobbies, their goals in life, or anything else AND you claim that you could never date them because they are transgender, then you need to re-evaluate your view of relationships and address your transphobic views. 

80% of the time you will not be thinking or interacting with their genitalia, you will be interacting with them as a person, not a walking cunt/penis.

Also, can we just not with the “Eww penis” or “Ewww vagina”, this is not necessary. You don’t need to back up the assertion that you are gay with cisnormative assumptions of male = penis and female = vulva/vagina. We aren’t five years old anymore and this isn’t the fucking schoolyard where there are secret clubs and you need to fit into arbitrary categories and do arbitrary things to get in. It is more than okay to be a gay guy and like vulvas, or be a lesbian and be okay with penises, or be a straight woman and likes vulva, or be a straight man and be fine with penises.

All yall are ridiculous, I shouldn’t even have to be making this post.

Dear cis gays: you are all bisexual now because sexual orientation is a choice. Your original choice claiming you were born same-sex attracted bigots is no longer valid. We will open your romantic and sexual boundaries without your consent because transphobia is worse than homophobia and any promotion of rape culture therein.

op is a repulsive homphobe

This is so homophobic. This same exact argument could be written to say that gay people should just be in straight relationships because it’s ultimately about ~the person~.

WTF cause this asshat OP to assume they are “potential partners” beyond wishful thinking? People who won’t take no for an answer are not safe to be around.

I, for one, particularly like how penises get to be penises, and vaginas have to be cunts. LGBT

Nobody with that much outright misogyny is a potential partner. I don’t care if they would otherwise check every box on the longest list of desirable traits I could think of. That level of misogyny is a dealbreaker. Lack of respect for my boundaries is a dealbreaker. And yes, penis is a dealbreaker. As is the lack of traits I find attractive.