I find it disturbing that I see gay women less often describing themselves as lesbians and more often calling themselves sapphic, wlw, or queer.
Meanwhile, every trans “woman” within a hundred mile radius is ADAMANT about the idea that they ARE a LESBIAN. They feel completely and utterly entitled to it while the women who actually should be calling themselves lesbians are changing their identities and comfort zones to include them in it.
Says a lot about male vs female socialization, don’t it?