Annoys me a little that people seem to tackle Fujoshis and the reading of m/m fanfiction with so much more aggressiveness than they do with the male consumption of lesbian porn and the fetishization of lesbians. Like, yeah, Fujoshis fetishizing gay men is horrible, but it’s in no way close to the fetishization of lesbians. We are intended to the male gaze, our whole existence is a fetish to heterosexual men, it’s an invite to try and change our minds, to violate our bodies and convert us. Lesbian porn exploits real life women for the pleasure of men and turns our sexuality to something male centered. Lesbians have nothing to do with men, and yet our existence is jerk off material.
When are we going to start paying attention to lesbians and stop blaming those with no power of oppresion over others? Fujoshis won’t try to convert gay men via corrective rape, gay porn is not made for women, these girls get off to mangas and made up stories. These men get off to real life women, to real life violence and real life explotation. We are not human to heterosexual men, we are a fucking fantasy, and we are treated as such. I’m not an object for your pleasure, my sexuality is not for you, my relationship with my girlfriend is not for you, my sex life is not for you. Lesbians are not for you.