if you think women in relationships with men asked to be raped/abused & that they should just pack their bags & leave, then it is very obvious you have no idea about the complexities of such issues & have never been directly affected by DV or even witnessed it happen to someone close to you
aaand its safe to say you hate women.
you should focus on helping those women not calling them “dickworshippers” or “handmaidens” & basically imply that they are “asking for it”