phalloid-destroyer:

so like there’s this kink that a woman sits on a chair, partly tied up, and a man continually hits her one after another. I’m talking about actual hitting, real, punches and kicks. Even though the woman screams and protests a little, she eventually stabilizes and takes the kicks and punches again. And in the comments, the daddy dom says “haha let the bitch wail, you’ll feed her later, aftercare..”

How is this in any way fucking safe or sane?

How the fuck can you call this empowering?

How the fuck this doesn’t concern me?

How the fuck is this healthy?

How the fuck this doesn’t stem from major mental issues?

Her insides are fucking swollen and she had million bruises. She wasn’t fucking okay. She was screaming in agony and pain. Is this okay? Should this be tolerated because it is so healthy and sane? Because they derive sexual pleasure from pain? How the fuck does this make it okay? How the fuck does deriving pleasure from pain in any way sane? 

Like, i don’t fucking care about your no true scottsman of “uhh but that isn’t bdsm!!!” it fucking is. The girl consented to it after all. But surprisingly, it doesn’t make it okay. I’m against sexual violence, if that offends you go choke for all i care. Sexual masochism and sadism are mental disorders. And calling this “ugh boring bitches” is sooo fucking lame. Yeah, caring about mental health and women’s safety and being against violence is sooo boring i know. If you really call healthy sex and relationships boring go to a fucking psychiatrist. You’re obviously not in a good mental state. Consented abuse is still abuse, either get help or get lost