phalloid-destroyer:

rad-itzel:

phalloid-destroyer:

damn one of the most cancerous genderkweer shit i had to read with my own two eyes was:

i was a libfem, tremendously struggling with being a lesbian boiling down to living in a very homophobic, sexist environment. i was on one of those “Sapphic wlw UwU no terfs!!!” blogs supposedly about “sapphic possitivity” ONLY had “OwO i’m SOOOO GAY i really want to hold a girl’s hand!!! i’m so gay!!! wlw moodboard!! i wanna hold a girl’s hand!!!!” run by bisexuals, agender ace lesbian, and transwomen and basically never actually had real positivity or talked about sex, anyway they were having a discourse on who can identify as a lesbian and i saw one of their posts about “NONBINARY AGENDER LESBIANS CAN EXIST!!! I’M ONE AND I’M A LESBIAN!!” so after some digging into the mod and the trying to grab the issue, i was ASTOUNDED. People who doesn’t “identify with womanhood” could be lesbians? i didn’t question what “identifying with womanhood” meant back then, but i knew the concept, anyway i asked them “How can you be a lesbian if you don’t at least “IDENTIFY” with womanhood?? lesbian is a female exclusive term??“ and the mod literally said “Hey don’t stress about it much, i’m a nonbinary agender he him trans butch lesbian and we are only here to love girls okay, i love women” and i was honestly? in-fucking-furiated. My blood literally started to boil and steam came out of my ears. I was like you are literally a fucking STRAIGHT MAN you fucking dipshit, why was he here?? and after looking into the all the mods they were all “agender/nonbinary bisexuals” and there was literally 0 lesbians in that blog. 0 same sex attracted females were in charge of that blog. And it didn’t deal with any kind of REAL negative misogynistic lesbophobic shit we lesbians deal with every single fucking day. I really wanted to see some actual positivity but instead it made me feel like shit for not wanting to suck dick. Like maybe make it a bisexual positivity blog instead? No? And? of fucking course, it revolved around “transwomen are women!!” dickcentrist bullshit. it was cotton ceiling obviously. talked all the time about how “problematic” it’s to be a lesbian. had x100 times more posts in the “transmisogyny” tag over “lesbophobia”. Seriously, that time he said “we are here to love women and our gender doesn’t matter i’m a lesbian male” was literally one of the biggest steps that made me a radfem.

I think many TRAs know that most radfems started as their libfem allies, and then we peaked trans.

That is why they hate us so much. That is why they try so hard to silence us. We know we could potentially convince any woman with sound arguments, and then they will have very little allies left. They know that if they lose their female handmaidens, they will lose a lot of power. That is the reason we’re so scary for them.

agreed, There’s also the fact that women who are antifeminists are also very protective of their “anti sjw but actually trans” allies. That’s also one of the reasons antisjws really hate terfs, but i was an antifeminist before i met radical feminism through an outsider lens. My transition was like -> antifeminist egalitarian (ikr I KNOW) -> libfem ->radfem like we have really sound arguments and facts, we just need to publish them more so people could reason. Because it is easy for many people to align with facts and truthful ideologies.