I think that frankly lots of men who see themselves as incels really are sad, and really feel isolated, in the same way that lots of white nationalists genuinely believe they are marginalized and are in real distress. But who cares? Literally what reason does any woman have to care about their feelings? The question of how these men feel is totally irrelevant when they’ve literally coalesced solely around the fact that they feel entitled to sexual access to women’s bodies and don’t see women as people. Every one of the people who have not just stepped a toe into this but become devoted mouthpieces of this concept could die tomorrow and the women in their lives would be significantly safer. I could not care less how they feel. They’re all ticking time bombs.