lesbian-venting:

i hate it when people conflate ‘being able to see if someone’s attractive’ with ‘being sexually attracted to them’.

“Oh, you think that man’s good looking, you must be attracted to him :)” No, fuck off.  “Oh, you don’t want to have sex with that person, you must think they’re ugly :(”  No, fuck off.  Stop with this weaseling, manipulative thinking.