yourlesbianmom:

friendly reminder that butch and femme identities don’t sit at opposite ends of a spectrum that every lesbian must squeeze themselves into.

friendly reminder that it’s perfectly okay to fall outside any femme/butch categorization.

friendly reminder that you can still respect butch/femme culture and history even without identifying as a femme or a butch.

friendly reminder that you don’t need to write ugly thinkpieces about the limitations of butch/femme culture just because you can’t relate to either identity or don’t understand why so many people believe those labels are still important