spencer-shayy:

grilled-cheese-situation:

pronounrespecter:

auntiewanda:

roachpatrol:

minumaja:

lesbian-lizards:

allm0ther:

smalldarlinglesbian:

roachpatrol:

so i’m going around asking my friends this for research purposes. cis people, if you don’t mind talking about it, could you reblog this and describe what being your gender feels like to you? how do you know you’re the gender you are? is there a particular reason you wouldn’t want to be another gender? and also, how do you think sexism affects your user experience of being that gender— does it make you like it more, or less, or even matter at all? 

thanks for answering! 

Lmfao how embarrassing

my gender feels like I’m contracted to a set of expectations I never agreed to and it’s alienating as fuck to have people treat it like a fun identity to try on like you’re in the Macy’s dressing room uwu

I think if I had any gender feel at all it would be annoyance at the idea of having to have a gender.

someone conflating gender essentialism and radical feminism in the reblogs. brings back memories.

wait, this person’s argument is because they don’t like being a girl no one else should get to try being one for fun? that’s incredible. i mean call me a crazy fucking weirdo but i think everyone should enjoy being their gender, and also have fun. 

How does someone approach trying being a girl for fun, anon? What would they have to do to accomplish this? I’m very interested to hear the details.

rachel dolezal is black for fun

“being a girl! for fun!” and similar sentiments are why I became gender critical in the first place!! :)))

gender isn’t fun. it is an oppressive hierarchy! hi welcome to earth!!

Gender isn’t fucking fun