Ok so I was a bit worried about the way my own biological father looks at me and I thought it was so bazar that I always even end up crying and it seems I’m really not the only one. and then after searching for so long, this is how they put it, “she is like my wife but 25 years younger, ofcourse it’s normal”
men are terrifying, like I wish I could say this is so completely un normal, but how many times do you hear about fathers and step fathers sexually abuse their daughters. like I can’t help but wonder how many just simply don’t act on their thoughts like this guy but still have it in their heads.
and he worst part is, this doesn’t happen when the girl is like an adult, it happens when she is begining or is hitting puberty.
I know this is “dark” and uncomfortable but the more you don’t talk about this, the more it happens and the more men try to normalize it.
this post has currently 4,300 notes, over half of these notes are full of responses like this. this isn’t even ¼th of the hate I’ve been getting
I’m just shocked but this is why pedophilia and incest within families happens. people care more about the reputation of men than the traumatizing experiences little girls face, while also telling girls who experience this and want to raise awareness to fuck off.
EDIT: again this was not meant to demonize men but you have to absolutely be living under a rock if you think this is not gendered. this is the average first age girls notice men looking at them sexually. can 11 year old boys really say the same from old women old enough to be their grandfathers? like men really out here thinking that their attraction to 5th graders is natural. stop trying to dismiss issues women little girls face and start let men take accountability
“People care more about the reputation of men than the traumatizing experiences little girls face, while also telling girls who experience this and want to raise awareness to fuck off.”