I already asked someone this and I’m sorry if it’s triggering but I really need advice. My guy bff slept over last night and we cuddled which isn’t unusual. I know he likes me but I really trusted him & care for him. However I woke up several times to him touching me (downstairs). I told him no & he stopped. In the morning he felt terrible & I said it was fine but it bothers me so much. Am I overreacting? Should I continue the friendship? I mean I know he likes me so I feel partly responsible

layingdownsomebatfeets:

womyn-are-rad:

You are absolutely not overreacting what he did was a huge violation of your privacy. Just thing for a minute how he waited until you were asleep in order to start touching you. He waited until you were mentally checked out and then he swooped in and did something to you that he knows you wouldn’t have allowed him to do if you were awake. Honestly I wouldn’t trust him at all after this situation and I would advise you to stay away from him When You’re vulnerable like you were that night. What you felt that night is absolutely warranted and don’t you ever go back on your feelings of uncomfortableness just because this guy is your friend. I love you and I hope you stay safe please update me with whatever happens 💛💛💛

I have some further suggestions; 1) next time he stays over, wait until he falls asleep and staple his nutsack to the bed. 2) Just fully grass him up to the police for assault. 

@ anon he’s only sorry he got caught