believing you can opt out of the sex binary or sex socialisation itself is incredibly inane and pretentious
the only ones I sympathise with are females who can’t express their discomfort with their sex or sex roles in any way other than believing it means they must not be female because of it, in turn avoiding the stigmatised, “terfy” discussion of sex based oppression. now you know why “afabs” are the face of the nb community lol.
Believing you can opt out of the sex binary is western privilege!