i just don’t get how y’all (libfems) can understand that a white person saying “i’ve always felt black bc i love watermelon and hip hop and spicy food and i’ve always related more to black people than white people and i love aave and i’ve always wished i had a big butt so i must actually be black” is racist af but don’t understand how a male saying “i’ve always felt like a woman because i like being feminine and wearing makeup and shaving and i always got along better with girls than boys and i prefer to be submissive and quiet than loud and aggressive” is sexist af.