Tbh I think a lot of ‘transgender’ activists have co-opted the term transsexual and changed it to fit their needs. Real transsexual people are a small percent. Someone waking up and deciding poof they’re whatever and being militant about it to feel special isn’t the same as a medically transitioned person who has gone thru a lot to be (though yes impossible to ever completely be) what they feel. Maybe both are ‘problematic’ but I feel there’s a big difference. You touched on that before I think.