hidetothink:

hidetothink:

If you “support” gay men by saying “most gay men only like penis, leave them alone” while debating people over “genital preferences” you’re still failing gay men

ALL gay men ONLY have sexual compatibility with the SAME SEX

Not “many”

Not “a majority”

Not “99.9999999%”

Every gay man is exclusively same sex attracted. That’s the definition of being a homosexual

If that upsets you or doesn’t mesh with your ideology or worldview then you are not an ally to gay men

Why does this matter?

Because this sets the rule that ANY gay man might be “the one”

Any gay man could be the minority, the .000000001%, who is capable of something other than exclusive same-sex attraction.

The gay kid who comes out to his parents? They can ask him to try harder at liking girls. After all, he could be that 0.000000001%

The gay kid taken to a conversion therapy camp? Maybe it will work, maybe he’s one of the 0.00000000001%

The gay man forcing himself to have sex with women? He might be one of the 0.00000000000001%, what’s the problem?

It leaves open the possibility that “maybe I’m one of THOSE gays” when a gay man desperately wants to stop being gay. It leaves open the possibility that “maybe he’s one of THOSE gays” when homophobes are desperately trying to beat the gay out of someone.