ghostlyradfem:

manintolerant:

One thing you Absolutely Cannot do if you’re a lesbian or bi girl is talk about what you find attractive about women around men. There’s really no way to win here because they’re either going to hypersexualize you or make you feel disgusting for your attraction to women, or both

another thing men do, when they find out youre into women, is think its okay to sexualize other women in your presence, because since u like women u must be cool with listening to sexual and rapey suggestions about other women