sangredesirena:

if you don’t think women under heteropatriarchy aren’t socialized to love dick and work around their discomfort in order to sexually please men, you’re quite frankly mistaken. that’s why this whole getting lesbians to *reconsider* their like of penis is so incredibly tone deaf. if you grew up as a woman under heteropatriarchy, especially a lesbian, you would know that women are ALREADY socialized to be attracted to/willing to perform sexual acts with dicks, we are told to look past our discomfort and focus on your pleasure and ego. you didn’t invent this sick request. genital preference discourse is literally patriarchal conversion therapy rhetoric combined with obliviousness to the female experience that could only come from being a straight dude