gayasingay:

One of the most annoying criticisms I get in regards to my opinions on the non binary issue is that i just don’t “get it”. As a man who is often read as gender non conforming, I get it. What I don’t get or accept is the way the queer community gives special pardons to men who identify as non binary. I know women who have been abused by men who identify as non binary. These women have been scared to speak out in case they get labelled terfs. These men have been supported by the “queer” community when they call these women their abusers and launch hate campaigns against them.

When labels exempt people from criticism theres absolutely a problem. This new progressive language stops us from talking about how sexual assault is a male problem that stems from male socialisation…and that’s a major problem. Because once said Male doesn’t identify as such the topic becomes null and void.

I don’t care how men identify, male violence is male violence and I’ll call it when I see it. Your pronouns do not cover your violence.