starinyourhand:

getoffmyastroterf:

communistroader:

dykegali:

actually every cisbian mutual that turns into a terf is usually like a few hours of intense paranoia that TOTALLY fucks up my day and leads to me feeling forced to reevaluate my relationship w every cis person in my life and worry for the next few days about how someone i thought i was close to could completely undermine my trust and how many others there are around me who would do the same

Paranoia is an obvious result of grandiose narcissistic system of thinking. You can only trust people who do no wrong and have no faults. You exhibit that system of thinking every time you fall into despair over a lesbian expressing the fact that she only likes females, or a ‘trans ally’ feeling bullied by the inhuman demands of perfection in your movement. (Not that getting fed up with the trans cult is a ‘fault’ but that you perceive it as one, and totally devalue those who you think guilty of it.)

You fucking need counselling if people’s boundaries mess you up that much OP. Like, you cannot ask people to ignore reality for your mental health. YOU are responsible for how you react, not the rest of the goddamnworld.

I know you’re young, but you need to fucking grow up at some point and take responsibility for your life. It is not the job of women, especially lesbians, to take care of you.

P.s. those women are not “turning into terfs” they are expressing boundaries. That you feel entitled to label them w a slur for doing so REEKS of male entitlement.

Maybe stop requiring lesbians to sleep with you to prove they’re not terfs