Here a gay man who identifies as a woman wonders if it’s transphobic to reject trans men as partners, as he is only interested in penises.
I
am mtf trans and transitioned some time ago but only recently started
looking for a man. Yesterday a man messaged me on a dating site and we
chatted. He revealed he was trans and pre op in all ways and I admit
that I lost interest. I like cock basically and it’s important to me
that my partner has one.
I am now worried that this is transphobia. But I also can’t “force”
myself to be sexually turned on by vagina. It doesn’t do it for me
whatsoever.
What to do?
The replies are a little surprising.
When a trans woman isn’t interested in vaginas, it’s a preference!
How do you give out this ignorant attitude then feel “attacked” when others give you that exact same energy? If it’s “transphobic” when the cis people do it, it’s definitely “transphobic” when you, a trans person, do it… or, it actually never was any “-phobic” to begin with
Big Mean Sweaty Dyke 