Are genital preferences transphobic?

he-got-the-dagger-tho:

fckyourconversiontherapyrhetoric:

onyx-soul:

I was surfing youtube, trying to find a video to watch, and I noticed one of them that had that title, and honestly I didn’t even really watch the video. I already have a strong opinion on the subject which I’d like to share and it’s :

Genital preferences are just preferences??

You can’t KNOW what’s someone’s genitals without seeing it or being told what it is.. and honestly there’s some people that you can’t even tell they’re trans and you could be dating one of them, your significant other could be trans but hasnt came out of the closet yet.. How would you react if they told you they want to transition and are looking for the love and support you always gave them? 

If you’re answer is “drop them”, if you stop loving them because of such pity matter then sorry not sorry but you ARE transphobic. You don’t stop loving someone over height, weight, hair color preferences or wtv. IT’S JUST A PREFERENCE. 

Personally I prefer vanilla over chocolate cake, but you know what? if a friend of mine tells me they’re gonna make a vanilla cake, but makes a chocolate cake instead, cause there wasn’t any betty crocker mix left at the grocery store or wtv other reason, I dont give a fuck, I won’t get mad??!? Cause it’s just cake??!? And it just happens that I prefer one over the other??!? And this might be a wild concept but I’ll eat the chocolate cake my friend made with their time and effort?!??! 

So hey! How about you stop trying to cover up your bigotry with shitty excuses? Anyway everyone can see through them, so save yourself some time and efforts and just say you’re transphobic. 

THANK YOU

“ Personally I prefer vanilla over chocolate cake, but you know what? if a friend of mine tells me they’re gonna make a vanilla cake, but makes a chocolate cake instead, cause there wasn’t any betty crocker mix left at the grocery store or wtv other reason, I dont give a fuck, I won’t get mad??!? Cause it’s just cake??!? And it just happens that I prefer one over the other??!? And this might be a wild concept but I’ll eat the chocolate cake my friend made with their time and effort?!??! “

This might be the most nonsensical thing I have ever read on here. Genitals are not the same thing as cake. People are not the same thing as cake! You’re not attracted to cake. You won’t have sex with cake. Cake can’t violate your consent. I mean, what? What are you even talking about. 
And besides: homosexuality is not a preference. Because if it’s a preference then homosexual people choose to be homosexual and that is conversion therapy rhetoric.

It’d be much more accurate if your friend knew you were lactose intolerant but baked the cake with regular milk and butter, and tried to pass it off without telling you.

You of course, realise on the first bite. You’re not stupid. You’ve had baristas do it to your coffee out of spite, traditional grandmothers who believe it’s just some fad, that it wasn’t a thing in her generation and serve you dairy anyway.

Then when you confront your friend, upset because you’ve now gotta deal with horrible gas and the shits, they get angry at YOU. They tell you you need to get over your hang ups with lactose “preferences”, and that you should in fact be grateful they put in all this effort. Despite KNOWING beforehand that you are lactose intolerant.

The madness continues when legions of people begin expressing the same beliefs. Shunning anyone with a lactose intolerance. It really makes people who use dairy products feel invalid, you know? How do you know this isn’t just a societal pressure you’ve engrained. They’re not saying you HAVE to consume dairy, but if you refuse it when offered you’re pretty fucking scummy, and maybe you should examine your repulsion to dairy before speaking on it again.

You’ve also got fuckheads crawling out of the woodwork to decry you, while also claiming they are equally lactose intolerant but aren’t gross and exclusionary like you. They’d be more than willing to eat someone’s cake. In fact they LOVE chugging glasses of milk all the time.

You’re just a gross, lactose exclusionist.

Also fuck off, sometimes people just don’t like different food. I don’t like chocolate cake. Do we not remember the popular “tea consent” analogy video? Just because someone makes you something doesn’t mean you have to fucking eat it.

How are you this rapey and or stupid?