moominradfem:

if using ur friends’ preferred pronouns helps them get thru a difficult time and a difficult relationship with gender, especially if they are female, it isn’t bad to do.

like, i’ll probably get hate for this. i’m not telling anyone what to do. but if you call your friend they/them pronouns to help with her dysphoria that’s like fine, and refusing to support her in that way probably wouldn’t be helpful