this is what I rly despise about the “it’s not my job to educate you!” crowd. you can’t move the goalposts every six months and then shun everyone who isn’t Online for not knowing the up to the minute acceptable word salad and expect ppl to respect your movement
They say it’s not their job to educate you when you don’t understand their wacky ass ideology then scream at you to be educated. Okay, from who, then?
work bisexual told me that she thinks the reason one of our kids is so angry and mean is because she’s bisexual and all her friends are gay and she doesn’t have anyone to talk to about boys, and I wanted to scream because the thing is she does have bisexual friends!!!! and straight friends!!! there are very few girls in the program that identify exclusively as gay, rather they use loose identifiers like “I date girls.” she’s actually angry and mean because her mom is angry and mean, and it doesn’t have anything to do with imaginary bully lesbians that punish girls for their attraction to boys, something I have literally *never* witnessed in our setting, only *ever* homophobic bullying. I am really tired of bisexuals pulling this card when it is truly, truly a made up problem used to obfuscate real problems like *cups hands around mouth* homophobia and compulsory heterosexuality
Today I got to go on one of our runs to more rural shelters to help relieve overcrowding there. We ended up bringing back 21 kittens and 10 dogs. So fun day. But this morning, while I was getting stuff together in preparation for the 90 minute drive…. This happened.
Excuse you Tiniest Opossum, but you are NOT allowed to escape through the front bars of the cat carrier we were housing you in. I’m going to put you back.
“NO!”
I am going to catch you and put you back and you have no say in this matter.
“NO!”
Catching you and putting you back now.
“NOOOOOO!”
Aaaand back you go. Let go of the purple towel and go in the cardboard box.
i think it’s wise for women to be suspicious of anything that asks that they expose themselves under the guise of feminism or body positivity. it WILL be abused.
ladies, they have you exactly where they want you.
Yea pretty much. When some basement dweller is like “big girls can’t wear bikinis/crop tops!” And there’s an entire thread of women posting sexy pictures of themselves to “prove him wrong”….he’s negging you for body pics do not fall for it!