The funniest homophobic notion out there is the whole, “you’re just a lesbian because you can’t get a man” thing. Like, do you have any idea how easy it is to get a man? It takes a smartphone and ten minutes of time while trying to get a girlfriend is like trying to win the lottery with a single ticket you found on the sidewalk.
Anyway I love bi people so much you’re all so smart and funny and with such an intense kindness that fuels your passion and I’d give anything for you to be endlessly happy and healthy and loved
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the real honest to god tea is that all men have womb envy because somewhere deep in their psyche they know how much more important women are to the whole of humanity thanks for coming to my ted talk
It’s disgustingly coercive to describe bdsm relationships as involving a ‘deeper/stronger bond’ than other romantic relationships, like you’re not even trying to hide the fact that you’re telling young girls and women that their relationship has more value if they let their male partner beat them for sexual gratification, and, conversely, that if they don’t want to experience physical violence, it’s because their relationship is weak and they just don’t trust/love their partner deeply enough. When we’re taught that so much of our value is tied to our romantic relationships with men, how do you expect women and girls to stand up against that?
What she means: Reading yaoi does not make you an ally to the LGBT+ community in any way. Furthermore, assigning the “seme (top, dominant, masculine)” and “uke (bottom, submissive, feminine)” roles to gay men in fiction–and sometimes real life–is blatantly heteronormative. However, heterosexual girls and women producing and consuming LGBT+ content because they enjoy the dynamic between two characters rather than fetishizing them and describing the production/consumption as “sin” is perfectly acceptable and doesn’t make you a homophobic dumpster fire.