the term “penis repulsion” is incompatible with understanding compulsory heterosexuality.
compulsory heterosexuality, from a lesbian standpoint, tells us that what we may (mis)interpret as attraction to men is in fact socialized tendencies. it is not genuine because it harms our mental health to pursue heterosexuality. the problem with this terminology is that it completely erases the language and experiences of homosexual women who struggle with comp het.
why must i be repulsed by the opposite sex’s body to be a homosexual? this labeling does a disservice to everyone. homosexuality does not exist because of repulsion or trauma, it exists as a natural state, and coincidentally, many of us happen to be traumatized.
insinuating we are repulsed by another to deny them sex is the definition of homophobia. it is a troubling mental health concern for those who feel homosexuals should not talk about our experiences, or completely change our language to appease to rhetoric that ultimately damages and retraumatizes us. you either take this as a legitimate concern, or you don’t. either way, homosexuality will always exist.
I’m fairly certain the primary reason that Chick-fil-A customer service far surpasses that of McDonald’s or most other fast food chains is staffing numbers. Go into your local McDonald’s and there’s maybe two registers open with people at them, another two people at drive-through, and maybe a few in the back.
Go to your average Chick-fil-A and there’s four registers open with people at them, another two or three people that are just doing the bagging, a few more people that are doing drinks, three people at drive-through, maybe 10 in the back, and on very busy days three or four out in the parking lot with iPads taking orders in the drive-through. When you have like 20-25 people each doing one little job, things tend to run smoother than when it’s 4-6 people expected to do 100 things at once.
If you’re a lesbian and you sleep with trans men you’re garbage
If you’re gay and you sleep with trans girls you’re garbage
Who are you to dictate who trans people can and can’t sleep with? Would a trans man sleeping with a lesbian turn her back into a woman? Are you admitting that y’alls identities rely solely on external factors? 🤔
Notice that it’s lesbians and gays who are garbage and not the trans men or trans women.
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